Father alcohol issues

[Mitchleysid]

I’m Catherine, one of the Parent Supporters here at Netmums. Thank you for reaching out and sharing with us. It sounds like a really tough situation for you as you are worried about your dad but you also ‘wonder now if I continue to help if I am in fact enable his destructive patterns plus stressing myself’. Sending you a hug this evening.

[Deekweerap]

I’ve been in a similar spot, and honestly, what helped me the most was setting some boundaries. It felt rough at first, like I was letting them down, but I realized you can still care for someone without trying to fix everything for them.Well, sometimes, stepping back from certain situations is what you need to protect yourself. It’s not about giving up—it’s about not letting their choices pull you under, too.If your dad ever decides he’s ready to turn things around, you could mention that someone I know was at Abbeycare, and it made a huge difference for them.

[Harold Styles]

Good afternoon, I am very interested in intensive outpatient therapy programs but don’t fully understand how they work. Do these programs provide weekend or evening support for those with busy schedules? How individualized can treatment plans be in these programs? Also wondering how quickly therapy can begin after contacting the center. Thanks in advance for any advice!

[BrentRoberts]

When I decided to fight my addiction I chose Recovery ZLA. Although I would probably lie that it was my personal decision, everyone decided for me, because I couldn’t make any decisions. My family was right, I needed to act immediately. I was fading away on the gas of my family and only now I realize how awful it was. It was iop in los angeles that helped me. Thanks to the center, I was able to get support and knowledge every day to help me move forward. The group sessions were especially helpful – I realized that I was not alone in my struggle. This program has changed my life and I wholeheartedly recommend it to anyone looking for help.

[Steve]

It’s tough to navigate loving someone while recognizing their harmful patterns. You clearly care deeply about your father, but it’s also important to protect your own well-being and boundaries. Many have faced similar situations and found it helpful to balance compassion with limits. Offering emotional support without enabling behavior (e.g., setting clear conditions for your help) can be a good step. Seeking support for yourself, whether through therapy or groups like Al-Anon, can also provide guidance and reassurance. You’re doing your best in a very hard situation—take care of yourself too.

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